add a spec for commit merge request diff notes

The st_commits and st_diffs columns on merge_request_diffs historically held the
YAML-serialised data for a merge request diff, in a variety of formats.

Since 9.5, these have been migrated in the background to two new tables:
merge_request_diff_commits and merge_request_diff_files. That has the advantage
that we can actually query the data (for instance, to find out how many commits
we've stored), and that it can't be in a variety of formats, but must match the
new schema.

This is the final step of that journey, where we drop those columns and remove
all references to them. This is a breaking change to the importer, because we
can no longer import diffs created in the old format, and we cannot guarantee
the export will be in the new format unless it was generated after this commit.

After installing a new gem, batch-loader, a construct can be used to
queue data to be fetched in bulk. The gem was also introduced in both
gitlab-org/gitlab-ce!14680 and gitlab-org/gitlab-ce!14846, but those mrs
are not merged yet.

For the generation of diffs, both the old blob and the new blob need to
be loaded. This for every file in the diff, too. Now we collect all
these so we do 1 fetch. Three `.allow_n_plus_1_calls` have been removed,
which I expect to be valid, but this needs to be confirmed by a full CI
run.

Possibly closes:
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37445
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37599
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37431

this will remove the need make N queries (per-note) at the
cost of having to mark notes with an attribute

this opens up the possibility for other special roles for notes