After installing a new gem, batch-loader, a construct can be used to
queue data to be fetched in bulk. The gem was also introduced in both
gitlab-org/gitlab-ce!14680 and gitlab-org/gitlab-ce!14846, but those mrs
are not merged yet.

For the generation of diffs, both the old blob and the new blob need to
be loaded. This for every file in the diff, too. Now we collect all
these so we do 1 fetch. Three `.allow_n_plus_1_calls` have been removed,
which I expect to be valid, but this needs to be confirmed by a full CI
run.

Possibly closes:
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37445
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37599
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/37431

this will remove the need make N queries (per-note) at the
cost of having to mark notes with an attribute

this opens up the possibility for other special roles for notes