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<![CDATA[<p>本文转自微信公众号:睡前故事<br>原标题:<a href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzA3ODM5MDEzMg==&mid=2652723330&idx=4&sn=738b4506c7b8ff8f34dbde0394c0dd7c&chksm=84aa8e99b3dd078fc30239088bd5d453c1fffe469394caedc95d56bef8b53943a5aabb03a0f2&mpshare=1&scene=23&srcid=#rd" target="_blank" rel="noopener">结婚8年,只晒3次朋友圈:成年人不会直接说爱你</a><br>作者 | 末那大叔<br>来源 | 末那大叔(id:monadashu77 )</p><hr><p>被爱是一种什么体验?</p><p>是一种心定,一种笃定,是泰然处之的自信。他爱你小心翼翼的软弱,也爱你欲盖弥彰的可爱。他爱你乖巧时的温柔,也爱你一百种任性的模样。</p><p>你知道并深信,那个人不会离你而去。</p><p>这些年,也听过很多人说:中国人,不懂表达爱。</p><p>最近看了个视频,一开始鼻酸,后来却笑了:</p><iframe style="width:100%;height:500px;" frameborder="0" src="https://v.qq.com/txp/iframe/player.html?vid=k0873o4vfl9" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe><center>视频来源:东鹏瓷砖《谁说中国人不懂爱》</center><p>如果你经历过无人可倾诉的夜晚。</p><p>如果你经常一个人出门,又一个人吃饭。</p><p>如果你在无助的时刻,发现需要的人不在身旁。</p><p>我想你很难笃定,自己是被爱的。</p><p><a href="https://i.loli.net/2019/05/30/5cef6a31e975b23827.gif" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img src="https://i.loli.net/2019/05/30/5cef6a31e975b23827.gif" alt="01.gif"></a></p><p>但你有时候也忘了,每个人都很忙。不存在无时无刻的陪伴,也很难整晚整夜的长谈。</p><p>在大部分情况下,感情没有发生过变化。只是你身处在爱里,所以看不见罢了。</p><p><a href="https://i.loli.net/2019/05/30/5cef6a31e9f0674550.gif" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img src="https://i.loli.net/2019/05/30/5cef6a31e9f0674550.gif" alt="02.gif"></a></p><p>我曾一度认为,爱别人是一种天赋。后来才明白:意识自己被爱,是种更珍贵的能力。</p><p>《饮食男女》里的老朱,是个名气在外的大厨。他的二女儿有做饭天赋,却性格不羁,绝不踏入家中厨房半步。</p><p>老朱上了年纪,失去味觉,身体也日渐变差。本以为这个家就这样散了。</p><p>但出乎他的意料,女儿放下执拗,做了一桌子饭,接过了大勺。</p><p>“原来你一直都是爱我的,只是你不说。”</p><p>电影的背后,我看到了很多中国人的感情模式:含蓄、内敛,不好意思轻易表达。但却默默用行动来表达爱意。</p><blockquote><p>@大白儿<br>“我曾以为婚姻败给了新鲜感”</p><p> 婚后8年,本以为爱情趋于平淡,他对自己再无新鲜感。但有天睡前,他对我说:“你能不能对我笑一下?”</p><p> 我说你干嘛,他说,我就觉得你笑起来特好看。他说这话的时候,脸有些通红。</p><p> 那一刻我意识到,彼此的爱意从来没有减弱。眼前的这个男人,一直是当年追自己时的那个男孩。</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>@李女士<br>“原来,她不曾忘记过爱我”</p><p> 南京某幼儿园,一位患阿兹海默症的80岁老人来到这里。</p><p> “我来接我女儿放学。”</p><p> 幼儿园反复核实,这里没有她说的这个孩子。</p><p> 民警来了之后,根据这个名字,联系上了她的女儿。女儿来了后问老人:“你怎么会跑到幼儿园呢?”</p><p> 妈妈说:“找你呀。”</p><p> 这是当年女儿念书的幼儿园,可是已经过去40年了。</p><p> 有些人,即使忘记了全世界,也没有忘记爱你。</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>@雪糕不甜<br>“她没嫌弃过我,是我误会了”</p><p> 以前在家的时候,总被妈妈说我丢三落四,房间一团糟。我觉得她很嫌弃我,工作后就搬出去住了。</p><p> 有次妈妈来,我在上班,回家后看到房间被收拾得很整齐。</p><p> 妈妈给我发了微信:“有空你多回家住吧,家里没你不习惯”</p><p> 那一刻我真的鼻酸。</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>@丘丘是球球<br>“分手第3个月,我发现我错了”</p><p> 他不喜欢对我说很甜的话。这和我之前谈的恋爱不太一样,他的礼貌让我很有距离感。</p><p> 后来我提了分手,他不情愿,但也答应了。</p><p> 很偶然翻到微信里一段视频,别人拍的。镜头里我在聊天,他就在不远处,温柔地看着我笑。</p><p> 语言可能会有谎言,但我相信爱一个人的眼神没法骗人。</p><p> 可能是我错了,他是爱我的。</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>@cc振同学<br>“他从不说爱我,但我看到了”</p><p> 我一度认为父亲不疼爱自己。我爸让我留在家乡考单位,我非要去广州写东西。</p><p> 一次大吵后,两人开始疏远,我回家的频率变得很低。有段时间我把他给屏蔽了,后来有天点开他的朋友圈。</p><p> 发现我写的文章,每一篇他都转发了。</p><p> 有些人一直在爱着你,只是不说。但你要相信,你们迟早会和解。</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>@吃葡萄阿洁<br>“他喜欢我,并不是说说而已”</p><p> 他从来都是嘻嘻哈哈,说话也没几句正经。我一度怀疑他根本不喜欢我,和我在一起只是单纯是因为无聊。</p><p> 后来有天,跟他表妹聊天才知道。没在一起之前,他就把我照片给他的家人和亲戚看了,还说一定会追到我。</p><p> 原来,他一直都很坚信这份感情。现在我们结婚3年了。</p></blockquote><p>真正推动爱的,也不是浓烈的激情,而是琐碎的光阴,是温热的饭菜,是难言的细节。</p><p>我们要学会有一双善于发现爱的眼睛——</p><p>中国人不是不懂爱,他们只是羞于表达,传递情感出口。</p><p>我们之所以很多时候没意识到自己被爱,只是因为处在爱中。</p><p>“你知道被爱的感觉是什么吗?就是那种被小心翼翼照顾的感觉。”</p><p>看过部剧,梵高穿越來到现代的巴黎。他来到博物馆,亲耳听到馆长评价自己是“世界上最伟大的人”。</p><p>那一刻,他哭得像个孩子……</p><p>知道自己被爱,对每个人都是莫大的治愈。</p><p>中国式表达,无论是在家庭还是感情,都是腼腆含蓄的。</p><p>你可能忘了,在很多时候你都被人守护着。</p><p>比如争执过后,妈妈轻轻推门的那句“来吃饭吧”;</p><p>比如你的一句胃疼,家里一天都没出现过辣椒;</p><p>再比如,怕你滑倒就悄悄换好的瓷砖。</p><p>他给你发的微信,给你留的早餐,注视你的眼神……以及你目光能及的一切地方,都有那些爱你的细节。</p><p>有时候我们看不见爱,只是因为一直在爱里。</p>]]>
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